Wednesday 25 May 2011

No sex till the baby is born!

So am reading Linda Ikeji's blog post about a man who refused to make love to his pregnant wife, and the comments are so interesting.

It also got me wondering why a man would refuse to have sex with the woman who is carrying his baby. Is it for fear of hurting the baby as many comments suggested on Linda's blog or does he not just find his wife attractive anymore?

Personally, i think the couple should talk to their doctor on how safe it is to have sex during pregnancy. At least, if the doctor warns against it, the wife's fears can be allayed. If it's about not finding her attractive anymore, then i don't buy that crap. What is that supposed to mean abeg?

So, the reason you make love to her in the first place is because she has a nice body or figure and not because you love her? And considering that she did not put herself in that position but your seed in her did, the least you could do is make her feel special at this point in her life. If it means you making love to her, then DO IT already.

And just to ask o, if he refuses to make love to his wife for reasons known to him, i hope he isn't getting any elsewhere sha?

I dunno what y'all think o but methinks that it is absurd to not crave sex with your pregnant wife.

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